In many relationships, anal sex is perceived as a type of "gift" from the woman, given out of love and regard, and a desire to give her partner. Most people mean anal intercourse when they think of anal sex. It happens when a Some men and women enjoy anal sex, and others do not. Some women like it and a lot of men are all about giving pleasure. Plus, it's Ask around and see if a guy wants to do anal EVERY time. Obviously, he doesn't.